There is no point in degrading yourself trying to win him over and get him to like you. Men have evolved over millions of years to be HUNTERS — to bring home food, to kill beasts, and to work in a group with their comrades to achieve a result — ie: If you wanna go out with him again, great. It's OK to want what you want and to let a man know it. What makes a guy blow hot and cold?
You can share your feelings with a man, but to expect that this will encourage him to do the same with you will only lead you to unnecessary frustration, especially if a man is already acting withdrawn.
The Dating Game of Hot and Cold
At the root of his hot and cold behavior is a whopping dose of uncertainty. Leave Your Comment Now There's an easy, open connection. Pilossoph lives in Chicago with her two children. The switch you feel in this scenario is really just him testing the waters to see if he wants to dive in. Please enter the code below.